Like a fine Bordeaux …please consume this message slowly and lovingly as what follows is one question which you can use to get unstuck and change your life in the process. One of the primary ways I begin to analyze a subject is by asking pointed, provocative and intellectually challenging questions. I then drill into […]
When Love, Life and Labor Collide
We all know that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. When it comes to love…the straightest line between giving and receiving is to be found by modeling loving behavior. We are undeniably magnetic. Like attracts like. Opposites detract. We communicate thru our actions. How we love ourselves models for others how […]
Do Not Pass Go. Do Not Collect $200
GO TO JAIL. GO DIRECTLY TO JAIL. DO NOT PASS GO. DO NOT COLLECT $200. If you’ve ever played the game Monopoly…you’ve no doubt heard the phrase…and received one of those yellow Community Chest or orange Chance cards. This phase has become widely used in popular culture to describe an action forced upon a person […]
Average Is Over
I have a secret to tell you. You can achieve practically any of your wildest dreams. It really doesn’t matter how big. Suspicious? Doubtful? By the end of this blog post, you won’t be. The secret is…Everything Counts! Little things become big things. Nothing is insignificant. Everything accumulates, compounds and piles up. If you long […]
It’s Never Going to Happen
A short list of things which are never going to happen… The sale will not close without asking for the order. You will never be accepted by a school to which you do not apply. No one will ever read the book that you do not write. You will never enjoy six-pack abs without diet […]
How to Transform Your Life
“Everything is hard before it is easy.” — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe When people ask me what I do for a living…I often say that I’m the crash test dummy for productivity solutions. I see myself as a human guinea pig…open and game for anything that will get me (and you) to operate at peak […]
I Have A Dream, Why Can’t I Achieve It?
Quitting smoking. Losing weight. Starting a business.Writing a book. Making more money. Becoming debt free. For anything you want to achieve in life, the steps to achieving it are easy to search for, come up with, write down on a napkin, and follow. Yet every day, people continue to smoke, gain weight, remain fiscally irresponsible […]
You Can Start, But Can You Finish?
“You can’t finish what you don’t start, and you should never start what you’re not committed to finish.” – Gary Ryan Blair . Pick a goal…any goal. Got one? Good. Be mindful… That goal you just picked… That thing you want to be, do or have… Will have no value if you don’t finish. And, […]
Tomorrow is Not Your Friend
It’s about time someone said it… Tomorrow is not your friend. All you have is today. Right now. That’s all you have. Look, I get it… It’s natural and comforting to want to look towards tomorrow with rose colored glasses. To think that tomorrow will smile on you and bless you with the abundant fruit […]
Reach Your Potential
2018 has arrived. If you’re committed to making it the best year of your life… Implement this little trick that Scorsese, Spielberg and Disney use when making movies… Work backwards. Begin at the finish. Know how you want it to end. Solve the climax first. Figure out where you want to go; then work backwards […]